Trust is valuable—but should be given with boundaries and clear expectations.

While it’s natural to rely on people close to us, especially neighbors or friends, it’s crucial to set clear limits and communicate responsibilities explicitly. Blind trust, without clear agreements, can lead to serious breaches—like letting strangers into your home under the assumption of doing a favor.

This story reminds us to protect our personal space, verify intentions, and not assume others share the same understanding of boundaries.

The story

I went on a month-long business trip, leaving my neighbor Lisa in charge of my home — something she’d reliably done for years.

She smiled as I handed over the keys, assuring me she’d take care of the plants and collect the mail.

We exchanged hugs, wished each other well, and I left, confident everything would be fine.